Instilling Leadership in Kids With Help From Mother Nature Guest Post for Tales of A Mountain Mama

Placing a focus on instilling in our kids the positive pillars that mark a great leader, is a just and noble endeavor we, as parents embark upon each and every day. These lessons can be taught any where, any time and what better classroom is there than the one Mother Nature built from the ground up with her own two loving hands.

The Four Pillars of Leadership consist of Integrity, Respect, Determination and Confidence and our dear Mother Nature has got them all in spades. With a little observation, stillness and connection we can seek to show our children just how perfect they truly are.

Integrity

Mother Nature is nothing, if not integrous. She is consistent and honest, although at times seemingly harsh, simply doing what needs to be done to maintain balance. She reflects her mirror of integrity back to us as we watch her conduct her symphony.

toddler resting

Integrity is deeply rooted in our every fiber, its core planted in the silence of our soul. It is connected to every word we speak, every action we take. Sitting with your babe by a stream, marvel as the leaves on the ridge of the mountain always change from green to yellow to gold and finally to brown and you will have learned that she is connected to you and you to her.

Click here to read my entire article at Amelia’s amazing blog Tales of A Mountain Mama!

A Family Friendly Roadtrip up the Famous Pacific Coast Highway

June 6, 2013 will mark my seventeenth year of being a Southern Californian. Having lived in Southern California for over half of my life now, I am proud to say that I have explored it in every single direction. I have visited its lakes, swam in its rivers, traversed its mountains, napped under its giant trees and I have roasted in its deserts, but there’s nothing quite as breathtaking as our California Coast.
In my first years here, you could find me on its beaches pretty much every day; running, rollerblading, biking, swimming or just basking in the sun. There nothing like the roar of the ocean waves and the vastness of its beauty to truly give you peace and perspective in the world.
Almost from the beginning of our (now) 17 year relationship, my husband and I have driven the California Coast via the famous Pacific Coast Highway, never allowing each other to take its grandeur for granted. From the Mexico Border, to Big Sur and all the way up past San Francisco, we have ridden its twists and turns and it is with deep pleasure that I’m sharing with you a few of our favorite stops along the way!

Paradise Cove – Malibu, California

My husband and I became weekly regulars at Paradise Cove when we were just dating, cira 1997! Back then, it was the most unassuming dive restaurant you’ve ever seen, in a (then) secret little cove in Malibu with the best weekday champagne brunch anywhere. 

Paradise Cove, Malibu
Two Young Kids on The Paradise Cove Beach – Circa 2007
We’ve spent birthdays there, anniversaries, long lazy days lounging on its quiet shores and it is the perfect spot to spend Mother’s Day. 

Paradise Cove, Malibu
Paradise Cove Beach – Mother’s Day 2011

Although you won’t find it very divey anymore, it’s still laid back and a must-stop for us on The Pacific Coast Highway! If you want to hike before you dine, check out The Solstice Canyon Trail to the Waterfall about 4 miles south on PCH!

Neptune’s Net on The Ventura County Line

Whether you’re a biker or not, if you’re driving The Pacific Coast Highway, Neptune’s Net is a must-stop! We took our little peanut here when she was just about 6 weeks old and she slept right through each and every unmuffled Harley vigorously starting its engine!
Photo by Kerem Hanci
Neptune’s Net

Neptune’s Net is known for its fresh seafood, cooked anyway you want! They have it all, from oysters and lobster to dungeness crab and calamari; raw, grilled or fried everything and beer for days! The perfect spot to stop after hiking The Grotto Trail @ Circle X Ranch a stone’s throw away!

Piedras Blancas Elephant Seal Rookery – San Simeon, California

This spot can get a little crowded, but it’s just too cool to pass up! The Piedras Blancas Elephant Seal Rookery is fun viewing for the kiddos (and the adults!), to watch these beautiful animals playing and relaxing in their natural habitat. They even have a webcam!

Elephant Seal Rookery, San Simeon, California
Photo by “Mike” Michael L. Baird

If you want to lunch nearby, WR Hearst State Beach is 4 miles south on PCH and the quaint town of Cambria is only 10 miles south of that with tons of restaurants and antique shopping!

Nepenthe Restaurant – Big Sur, California

One year we arrived to our Big Sur campground to learn that a red flag warning had been given and no fires were allowed. In all of the years we had been camping this had never happened to us. We were totally ill-prepared. All of the food we had brought with us required fire, so we did what clever campers do, we drove up the Pacific Coast Highway in search of a restaurant! 
Photo by Kerem Hanci
Nepenthe Restaurant
We never would have guessed what a treat we were in for when we came across Nepenthe. A family owned and operated gem nestled on a cliff 800 feet above the wild Pacific Ocean, they have been serving fresh, locally caught seafood to visitors for almost 65 years!

This restaurant plops you directly in the middle of Big Sur adventureland, (Julia Pfeiffer State Park is just 7 miles south, Andrew Molera State Park is 6 miles south) so go and explore in any direction!

[Guest Blogger Series] Making Time For More Family Time by Kerem Hanci

This month Mommy Hiker is pleased, honored and proud to welcome my very own husband, Kerem Hanci to the Guest Blogger Series! Pro Photographer, Husband, Daddy, Blogger extraordinaire, he has been writing his own very popular Friday Photo Blog for just over 5 years now and if you’ve been with us from the beginning, you may remember waaaay back almost a year ago to his first Mommy Hiker Guest Post (Wow! A year!). Let’s give him a warm welcome back!

I am so happy to reconnect with all the readers of Mommy Hiker again.


As a professional photographer who shoots primarily weddings, summer is extremely busy for me. 
Although this can create certain challenges in getting my much-needed family time, I never let it become an excuse to take those precious fleeting moments away from me.

We were able to schedule a fantastic camping trip (
my blog post on that trip and I am sure you already have read Jen’s blog post) last month and this past week was extremely busy for us in a very good, outdoorsy way!

toddler playing in park
toddler playing in park

First we spent an entire afternoon at the park.  We were supposed to meet with friends and something came up on their end and we ended up having a family day at the park.

toddler playing in park 

toddler playing in park

Following that wonderful day, right before the weekend, I went along to my first official Mommy Hiker Los Angeles hike! The Mommy Hiker regulars and their children who joined, the energy of the group and the joyful couple of hours that followed were one of the absolute highlights of my summer!


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The camaraderie of the children, with the older ones taking responsability for the younger ones was adorable to witness.  I kind of stayed away from the socializing moms (which is another perk for the members of the Mommy Hiker community) and focused on the children.  Their laughter, their fascination with the nature and their endless imagination uplifted me to a whole different level on Friday morning.


kids hiking

kids hiking


The lunch time was a carnival of carefully packed delicious, healthy snacks and it was followed by a festival of children taking turns blowing bubbles and get lost in their excitement of chasing soapy water filled with air. The joy of life really is just that simple!


kids hiking
kids hiking


Over the weekend we drove down to Long Beach for a baby shower, than we drove up to Oxnard for a wild-life cruise, which Jennifer is dedicating an entire blog post to later this month.


whale watching cruise channel islands

whale watching cruise channel islands


I am certain I am preaching to the choir here, but I would like to finish this photography-heavy blog with this: don’t say you would go out and explore the outdoors and let your child(ren)’s imagination run wild “when you can”.  Make time for it, create it and give your undivided attention to how your little one is expanding his/her horizons.  Expand yours with theirs.  We are blessed in California, with year-round lovely weather, kid and wallet-friendly outdoor attractions.  Come join the Mommy Hiker group when they are hiking on Friday mornings and make a serious effort to go every week.  It is a fantastic opportunity to stay in shape, to challenge the little ones and yourself to achieve new heights in personal development.


kids hiking

This was the first time I joined them hiking, you can be sure it was not the last time!  See you all soon on a hiking trail with the little ones!